Afro-Latin London based Dominatrix. Playfully Sadistic, extremely inappropriate & a living Goddess. Naturally dominant, I take great pleasure in training you on how to become obedient, loyal and committed submissive to attend to my every need. You will learn to love pain for Me & thank Me for having such a positive impact in your life.
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See the Q and A interview with Goddess Cyn London here:
Q: Firstly, can we ask your Mistress name:
A: Certainly. I’m Goddess Cyn
Q: How did you start in BDSM? A: Looking back now, I’d always been a kinky/experimental person but being raised in a religious home – the topic of sex/ kink etc. had always been taboo, so it was never talked about and I’d never really explored it. When I started dating (at 19/20 years of age) my first boyfriend was quite experimental himself so he’d introduced me to a few things however, I very quickly found that I did not enjoy being subjugated to only please him and not pay any mind to my sexual desires/satisfaction. Years went by & life went on. I’d dabbled with sugar dating but again, the idea of someone having total power over me wasnt extremely appealing. When I was 25, I was bored and alone in my apartment so decided to occupy myself with something “out of the ordinary” (for me) and started webcamming. It was a fun & enlightening experience. It was through that I found out about BDSM. After educating myself further on the subject, everything made sense to Me & here I am.
Q:What made you decide to become a professional Dominatrix? A: There were a few factors that played a part in my decision. My career before this was within the corporate world so financially, I was stable however – there was no room for being creative, which is something that truly fulfills my soul.My imagination is wild and through being a Professional Dominatrix, I can have the creative freedom I lacked & turn it into a lucrative business, which is nice.
Q: How long have you been a Professional Dominatrx? A: Just over two years now.
Q: Do you enjoy your being a professional Dominatrix? A: I genuinely enjoy what I do. I love bringing my fantasies to life & create moments with others who share the same interests as me. It makes my heart happy.
Q: What are the best words of advice to someone looking to enter this business? A: Do your research on practicing BDSM safely, consensual and responsibly. Find good role models within this community and learn from them. Be inspired by others but create your own identity, build your own brand as you grow and evolve as a person. Work out what your USP is or what you’d like for it to be. Keep your personal life separate from your profession as a dominatrix. Give yourself days off; it can be very easy to find yourself working around the clock & burnout is real. Not everyone’s out there to get you but not everyone’s your friend. Go with your gut & always know your worth. Don’t compare yourself to others. It may be difficult to keep this mindset but remember that there’s only ONE of you & that alone is awesome! Consistency is key to being successful in any industry – especially within sexwork that’s saturated with amazing talented dominatrices. It may take months or even years for you to get to your end goal but remember… Rome wasn’t built in a day.
Most importantly: Go for it because you naturally love every aspect of the lifestyle & it truly makes you happy when you’re in your element! Everything else will fall into place 🙂
Q: What would your words of advice would you offer a first time client? A: Be completely open and honest with us from the get go. We’re not mind readers and domination comes in many forms. We’re not judging you and it’s okay to be nervous. Ask questions as many times as needed. We all started somewhere and there’s a first time for everything.
Q: What are your favourite sessions? A: As a playfully manipulative sadist & shameless pervert, the long and torturous sessions are my favourite! The sounds of a man being vulnerable, crying & begging to be used in the most deplorable of ways by Me truly makes Me happy!
Q: What is the most unusual request you been asked? A: One that springs to mind was when I had someone ask Me to mutilate their female genitalia, cook the remains and feed it to them using a gold spoon.
Q: What equipment do use for your sessions? A: I have a humble (and growing) collection of whips, chains, paddles, riding crops, strap ons etc. that I like to incorporate in sessions but since I don’t own a dungeon (yet) I usually host from one of a reputable standing & am comfortable with experimenting with most of their equipment.
Q: What is the most asked for outfit for sessions? A: I don’t usually take outfit requests for sessions as I believe that a Dominant will always be a Dominant, regardless of their attire of choice. Depending on the session in question, I’ll dress accordingly. I’ve conducted sessions in latex, PVC, joggers and a top, denim shorts & a swimsuit, lingerie etc.
Q: If a client if looking to buy you a gift on as well as a tribute what would be a good gift? A: Depends on the client and the rapport we have built together. I truly appreciate gifts that carry a sense of thoughtfulness behind it, such as a heartfelt letter with an engraved gift alongside it or a painting of Me. Having said that however, a pair of high heels is always a good shout too. Genuine clients will have browsed through my wishlist to draw inspiration.
Q: What is the longest session you have ever had? A: Three days at a beautiful apartment at the Savoy with one of the kindest men I’ve met through the industry.
Q: How long do you see yourself being a professional Dominatrix for? A: For as long as my body & creative mind allows it. I’m a lover of kink & I enjoy creating/living out various fantasies in many forms. One day, when my body grows old and I become frail, I will hope that my journey will inspire and educate others to excel in this craft.