London based Chinese Dominatrix and Medical Sadist specialising in heavy medical play and classical BDSM journeys for a selection of slaves, masochists, submissives and bottoms in UK and Europe.
Medical fetish play will inevitably include some, or sometimes all, of the following: CP, CBT, needles, catheterisation, scrotal infusion, anal training and stretching, blood drawing, urethral sounds, pain and pleasure, sensual sadism, electro stimulation, restriction and bondage.
My play style varies according to whom I am playing with. I am energetic, strict, playful and wickedly sadistic. I am very hands on, very assertive in every day life and I will use My Feminine powers against you to move you to My liking. When I give command I expect it to be obeyed.
I can be intimidating but being naturally intuitive I will also make you feel safe in your submission to Me. I will bring you to a place where you have secretly longed to be, make you completely surrendered, under My complete control.
My BDSM sessions require intense focus to make sure they are being done effectively and safely. A skilful BDSM session can free up the restricted erotic energy that is available to you, dissolving societal and internalised limitations regarding your hidden, dark, forbidden fantasies.
I offer different aspects of BDSM activities and will structure the session based on your desires and limitations. Every individual is different and unique therefore sessions are individualised. I may alter the details based on the flow during our time together.
So while I am a specialist in medical fetish play and intense medical scenarios, a blend of several types of domination is never off the table.
Madame Li Ying’s Website http://www.madame-li-ying.com
We have done a Q and A with Madame Li Ying please see below:
Q: Firstly, can we ask your Mistress name:
A: My name is Madame Li Ying
Q: How did you start in BDSM?
A: I started BDSM in early 2003, after I saw a dominatrix disciplining a slave. She was dressed in House of Harlot latex policewoman outfit, very sexy and powerful. The scene turned me on tremendously. I wanted to be like her so I started to receive training from Mistress Chloe, author of “Dominatrix – The Making of Mistress Chloe”
Q: How long have you been a Professional Dominatrx?
A: I started in late 2003 both in Hong Kong and London.
Q: Do you enjoy your being a professional Dominatrix?
A: I enjoyed it, enjoy it even more after I took a long break. I am coming back to the scene with more passion and creativity. My focus is to work with clients’ fantasies and do my best to bring them to live.
Q: What are the best words of advice to someone looking to enter this business
A: If making fast money is your only motivation I suggest you not to do it. Just like most things in life, without passion you will not succeed. BDSM involve with not only the physical aspect but psychological aspects. The interaction is intimate and based on trust. Not only building up trust between you and client, but you also have to trust yourself and your instinct in a session.
Q: What would your words of advice would you offer a first time client?
A: I would advice you to do your research, ask as many questions as you need to but keep it concise and respectful. Trust your gut feelings. You are not looking for the best Domme in the world but the Domme who is right for you.
Q: What are your favourite sessions?
A: I enjoy medical scenarios, something exciting and thrilling, that is why medical play is my specialty. But it also depends on whom I am playing with. I have had very good and sensual foot/heel worship sessions, what made it special was the interaction between me and the client.
Q: What is the most unusual request you been asked?
A: Real castration. I have seen clips on Twitter but that’s not something I would do.
Q: What equipment do use for your sessions?
A: Depend on the session. For CP I use canes, tawses and floggers a lot. As for medical scenarios I use urethral sounds, EStim, catheters, needles, fishhooks, suture needles.
Q: What is the most asked for outfit for sessions?
A: Latex catsuit with knee or thigh high boots, nurse uniform.
Q: If a client if looking to buy you a gift on as well as a tribute what would be a good gift?
A: Boots, medical play equipments including sterilisation products.
Q: What is the longest session you have every had?
A: My longest session was a 3 hours anal fisting and intoxication session.
Q: How long do you see being a professional Dominatrix for?
A: Probably until 65? I love BDSM but there is a lot more in life. I guess at some point I will slowly fading out from the scene and follow whatever inspires me.
Thank you so much Madame Li Ying for the interview.