Dominating the male species is both my craft & trade; both of which I take wicked pleasure in. With 13 years experience I still love exploring the individual, creating & destroying, toying & teasing. As a professional Domme I take into consideration the individual sub/masochist/slave, their experience level, areas of interest and limits accordingly to immerse them, heal them, break them, make them, ultimately satiating their dark desires of mind & body.
The Cruel Adventuress is based in London UK
Visit The Cruel Adventuress’ website here https://www.tThecrueladventuress.com/
Q and A with The Cruel Adventuress:
Q: Firstly, can we ask your Mistress name:
A: I was actually known as Mistress Sadie of London from 2006 until I took a break – on returning in 2017 I decided on a bit of a reinvention. Coming across 7the word adventuress some years ago I thought it described my past exploits in BDSM and my whole outlook in general – of course I had to add a dark adjective to simply put my cruel self across.
Q: How did you start in BDSM?
A: I watched Personal Services – a great comedy BDSM film – far too early on in life and that caused a spark. Age 19 I was doing adult phone chat work and we had a whole tutorial on being a phone Dominatrix – we were also given a book and that is where it really started.
Q:What made you decide to become a professional Dominatrix?
A: Where many others would’ve wanted anonymity I discovered the Pro-Domme scene online on moving to London in 2006 and was enraptured by it – I wanted to be part of it and so I got myself some lifestyle slaves to practice on and launched myself. At that point it wasn’t so much about the money as my lifestyles contributed but more about the infamy and being part of an exciting movement.
Q: How long have you been a Professional Dominatrx?
A: As above I launched myself in 2006 but I never had my own dungeon and didn’t session often in the early days on a professional basis – I took a break in 2015-2017 to try other career avenues.
Q: Do you enjoy your being a professional Dominatrix?
A: Sometimes I love it and sometimes I hate it.
Q: What are the best words of advice to someone looking to enter this
A: I’m not one to usually give advice however I would say that it needs to be thought about a lot and there is so much that goes into unlike some other areas of adult work. Be prepared to be prepared and to constantly update and learn new skills.
Q: What would your words of advice would you offer a first time client?
A: Be thruthful when answering the standard questions pre-session on experience, limits etc., to contemplate that there is a whole scape of BDSM to be explored and that includes themselves. Of course there are the standard rules – of respect, being timely, not trying to lead the session but communicating as submissively possible.
Q: What are your favourite sessions?
A: Medical I love for the clinical aspect which I feel embodies my personality. Also I love beat-downs, CP especially no limits, humiliation is another love of mine. Role-play is something I excel at and really enjoy – though my dominance is in no way an act. Blackmail is an old favourite too.
Q: What is the most unusual request you been asked?
A: With BDSM being the unusual in the world of sex it becomes harder and harder to answer this question the more I experience. Years ago one guy emailed a whole bizarre scenario where I would be with Domme friend in a cafe and he sat with us and when we caught him looking down our bras we were to smash cream pies in his face – like real cream pies. I am sure that this guy used to do the rounds with his requests to other Mistresses.
Q: What equipment do use for your sessions?
A: In my studio I have the basics as well as a dedicated medical area with hydraulic gynae chair, suspension rig, swing, cage, stocks and desk. I use my leather ottomans as a flogging & bondage bench – I try to not use the usual dungeon furniture and I am still building up my equipment after moving into my own place last year.
Q: What is the most asked for outfit for sessions?
A: Stockings and gloves, recently smart office wear and of course leather.
Q: If a client if looking to buy you a gift on as well as a tribute what
would be a good gift?
A: Haha, luxury stockings! Also I love candles and of course new BDSM equipment is always welcome.
Q: What is the longest session you have every had?
A: Well not taking into account being with lifestyles a 12 hour with caging too.
Q: How long do you see being a professional Dominatrix for?
A: For the next 3-4 years at least. At some point I would like to try some new business ideas.